Bring your Fifty Shades Fantasy to Life

FSOG-Distributor-Banner-300x250 V2To celebrate the release of the Fifty Shades of Grey Movie. Madame Santonesse has created a kinky experiment just for you. After scouring the Fifty Shades of Grey novel, we’ve recreated our favourite scenes from the book and combined them with the Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure Collection in a bid to bring our Fifty Shades of Grey Fantasies to life.

The Fifty Shades of Grey Wrist Restraints

‘He reaches down, and from his pants pocket, he takes out his silver grey silk tie… that silver grey woven tie that leaves small impressions of its weave on my skin. He moves so quickly, sitting astride me as he fastens my wrists together, but this time, he ties the other end of the tie to one of the spokes of my white iron headboard. He pulls at my binding, checking it’s secure. I’m not going anywhere. I’m tied, literally, to my bed, and I’m so aroused.’

An iconic scene from Fifty Shades of Grey and one that I was so eager to try out. Using the official Fifty Shades of Grey Deluxe Wrist Ties from Santonesse, we eagerly got down to business.

We had a lovely evening, sipping champagne and teasing sensually before moving into the bedroom. We have tried restraint before but the wrist restraints were a new experience for us. Carefully, my lover bound my wrists tightly together, leaving my upper body completely incapacitated whist he embarked upon sensual teasing. The restraints were soft and silky against my skin so although I was held firm, I felt very comfortable and there were no tell-tale marks.

Whilst my arms were restrained, I was completely at the mercy of my lover. I was excited by the thrill of incapacity and his every touch felt magnified as he teased and thrilled me with his mouth, his hands, and props like the Fifty Shades of Grey Flogger. He teased me with the soft leather tassels before switching to sharp, stinging slaps.

As an experience it was incredibly erotic and left me begging him for fulfilment. He enjoyed having control of the experience and I felt that it encouraged us to be more creative during our foreplay.

Ben Wa Balls

‘He holds out his hand, and in his palm are two shiny silver balls linked with a thick black thread … Inside me! I gasp, and all the muscles deep in my belly clench. My inner goddess is doing the dance of the seven veils … Oh my … It’s a curious feeling. Once they’re inside me, I can’t really feel them—but then again I know they’re there … Oh my … I may have to keep these. They make me needy, needy for sex.’

To bring this fantasy to life we used the Fifty Shades of Grey Metal Ben Wa Balls from the Santonesse collection. Having never used them before, I was particularly excited to experience ‘the dance of the seven veils’. I applied a little lubricant and inserted the balls, one by one. Initially the balls felt very cold but soon warmed to match the heat of my body. My pelvic muscles naturally held them in place.

When I moved, the balls jiggled around gently but remained completely silent and discreet during use. I could feel pressure on my G Spot, but it was more of a gentle arousal than a powerful sensation. The more active I was the more aroused I became, so they were a nice build up to sexual play.

I have tried these balls a few times now and really like to combine them with the Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure Gel and the Fifty Shades of Grey Vibrating Bullet. During climax, the natural clench of my pelvic muscles firmly grips the balls and stimulates me internally. I experienced a deep G spot massage combined with pleasure heightening sensation and a powerful clitoral orgasm. It was absolutely mind blowing!

Ben Wa Balls are also great for exercise too. Wear them for 15 minutes each day and experience better bladder control and heightened sexual pleasure as soon as six weeks after starting the regime. They are such a versatile product and I would highly recommend them.

Forceful Kissing

‘Before I know it, he’s got both of my hands in his vice like grip above my head, and he’s pinning me to the wall using his lips. His other hand grabs my hair and yanks down, bringing my face up, and his lips are on mine. My tongue tentatively strokes his and joins his in a slow, erotic dance. His erection is against my belly.’

I am a huge fan of kissing and looked forward to this challenge. I informed Monsieur of his part in the fantasy and explained that I expected just kissing, no sex. It was going to be a challenge! We seem to have developed a habit of only kissing when one of us wanted to instigate sex, so I was looking forward to adding an exciting new dimension to our everyday relationship.

As I felt that it was something which should happen spontaneously, I surprised him with a kiss during a moment when he was reading a book. Leaping upon him, I cupped his face and began a deep, slow and erotic kiss. He quickly took charge, forcefully taking me and increasing in desire and intensity. I felt his urgency build as the kiss continued and he began tugging at my clothes. It was so sensual but I stubbornly refused to go any further.

Throughout the afternoon, we continued this dance of using our mouths to pleasure and tease without progressing to sex. It was exciting, it was frustrating and it was so erotic. This sexual build up is great for a day of slow and intoxicating seduction and even better when combined with the Fifty Shades of Grey Sensual Touch Massage Oil. We were both, frantic by the time the massage was over and sex was amazing.

Overall, a very erotic and sensual experience.


Nipple Clamps

‘These clamps are vicious.’ He prods the nipple clamps. ‘We’ll use these …They’re adjustable.’ Christian, my sexual mentor … My mouth is already open from panting.’

I have tried nipple clamps before and HATED them, the pain was too intense and unpleasant so I approached this fantasy scenario with trepidation. However, on inspection, I found that I rather liked the look of the Fifty Shades of Grey Adjustable Pinch Clamps because they seemed more suitable for a beginner like me.

The clamps were very simple to put on and easy to adjust. Pushing the bar in the centre upwards towards the tip of the clamps adds a stronger pinch and moving it downwards releases the clamp.  Because I chose my level of pressure, I had the perfect amount of pinch and sensation to suit my tastes. The weights when flicked, send a whole range of sensation travelling through the nipple and directly to my clitoris. It was like having someone constantly playing with your nipples and I loved it. I found that wearing the clamps during sex when I am on top pleased my lover with a great view and causes a jiggle which tugged at my nipples and thrilled me with some amazing sensations.

For a beginner like me, the Fifty Shades of Grey Adjustable Pinch Clamps were perfect and the weights added a pull to the nipple and causes the clamps to swing during movement. For me, the clamps were the biggest surprise of all. I loved them!

Spanking and a soothing balm

‘Suddenly he grabs me, tipping me across his lap. With one smooth movement, he angles his body so my torso is resting on the bed beside him. He throws his right leg over both mine and plants his left forearm on the small of my back, holding me down so I cannot move … He places his hand on my naked behind, softly fondling me, stroking around and around with his flat palm. And then his hand is no longer there … and he hits me—hard.’

I’m no stranger to a good, hard spanking and this can be incredibly erotic for both him and her when the right amount of pressure is used. For me, during spanking I enjoy lying naked across my lovers lap whilst he forcefully holds me in place, similar to the method used above. For beginners, I would recommend a gentle build-up of slaps starting gently and increasing in force so you can become accustomed to the sting. A strong slap can come as a shock if you aren’t accustomed to it.

To add a twist to spanking, we included the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Remote Control Egg. My lover inserted the Egg and held me in position where I was under his full control. He began with soothing strokes on my buttocks whilst the Egg vibrated teasingly against my G Spot. When the first slap hit my bottom, my lover immediately increased the intensity of vibration using the remote control which caused a frenzy of sensations coursing through my body.

As my lover spanked, he thrilled me with a range of sensations from pulsating, teasing and high intensity, each different setting easily switched using the remote control. When I climaxed, it was a full body climax that left me tingling all over.

After play, my lover soothed my sore bottom with the Fifty Shades of Grey Soothe Me After Spanking Cream. This felt cool and thick against my hot skin and was the perfect way for us to reconnect after the experience.

Creating Your Own Fantasy

Fifty Shades of Grey is a worldwide phenomenon and has been setting bed chambers alight with passion since it was published in 2011.

One of the reasons credited for the success of the book was the fantasy element of the story. After falling in love with the characters Christian and Anastasia, readers started to explore their own sexual desires and became more adventurous in the bedroom. The Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure Collection was designed using products from the popular series and created to encourage buyers to experiment with their own Fifty Shades of Grey Fantasies.

Why not take a look at our huge collection of products and create your very own Red Room of Pain? After all, if it’s good enough for Mr Grey…..